Serial Dating

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Just like serial killers, I don't think there is much glory in serial dating - serial daters don't hate me that's my humble opinion. That day I saw this funny picture and I spent some time chewing over the thought and I realized, to a great extent it is true. Now, if -

V - potential difference between dating girls and doing something productive

I - Current of love
R - Resistance to the flow

then if the resistance start to increase you are stuck because V = IR (people with electronics background know this as Ohms Law). Now since there is only one path through all relationships, you will spend majority of your energy on the relationship with greatest resistance. If you are having a rusty or messed up circuit board you run into a risk of electrocuting anyone who touches it.

When you are multitasking, how often it happened that you wrote a message "last night was wild and fun" and then you realized it was meant for Marie and not Mary, and you spend 5 minutes frantically typing and building a story around that statement. Now that was the superficial part, it is found often women and even men, who are just fresh out of bad or abusive relationship will serial date in order to avoid the pain and anxiety. Your confidence meter gradually slides down with every relationship that turn sour, unless you know the work arounds.

Serial dating often lead to many other self esteem, and even physical issues and in the worst case you realize you are magnet for attracting the losers. I personally know a woman, I have lost count of the number of men she had been with. This is not how it started - she was in a stable marriage with kids when all heaven broke loose.

What do you think about serial dating, let us know ?