Woman, Dating, and Books

Saturday, October 11, 2008

If not all, most women (myself included) loved to read romantic books at any point in our lives. Some more than others, but we all have done this. Well ladies, there is something getting damaged because of this habit. Our dating life, marital relationship, and even the life as a single woman! Do you know why? Because the more, we read about wonderful men who rescued a woman in need, etc. the more we desire to have such a man.

We tend to believe that we will find that "purrrfect man" who will understand each one of our needs and will always know what to do in any given situation. You may say, "Well, I know this can never happen, why would I need you to tell me that?" Because, we do believe this! We do desire and wish for our man to be able to understand everything and most of all to be our bodyguards and heroes. I know, I want that also. But it is not real, and that doesn't make men bad, or less interesting; it just makes them human.

I am not against romantic books... God knows I used to love them! But we have to be down to earth when it comes to our real-life man. Ladies, the books are fun, but sharing your life with a wonderful inperfect man, it's just magnificent. Don't endanger your love life with fantasy, get yourself a real life romance.

Good Luck To You! - By: L.A.


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